Do you find it easier to like people when you think of them as popular or do you prefer to think of people as being either friendly or unfriendly?
Are people more popular with you when you can identify with some aspect about them?
It is often the case that popularity is associated with the aspirations of observers. It is a cause of emulation and adulation.
Are people popular with you because you feel a sense of familiarity with their name?
If you do not consider yourself to be particularly popular at present, do you want to be more popular?
Is popularity about being liked, and even loved?
Are popular people never lonely, in your view?